Wednesday, December 26, 2012

A visit from great friends!

Merry Christmas everyone!! I hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas!! We have had a great time on the Cape. We didn't get a white Christmas but being by the ocean isn't half bad. We are all heading back to our respective homes tomorrow.

Today we received a visit from our life long friends Dianne, Ryan and Kevin. Mom and dad went to BC with Dianne and we have known Ryan (and his bro Alex) since they were born. Today is Ryan's 27th bday!

Dianne and Caitlyn

Ryan and mom 

                                                                   Christmas bday babies!

                                                             

We hope everyone has a happy and healthy New Year!
Love,
The Murphy's





Friday, December 21, 2012

Cape Cod Christmas

This is Kevin and I am hijacking the blog once again.  There are many details to fill you in on since the last post.

Round three of four chemos was completed last Wednesday, and the PET scan was last Thursday.  Patti wanted to take her chemo "week off" at the Cape to hibernate a bit before Christmas so on Thursday AM we had the PET scan and went off to the airport.

The PET Scan results were a mixed bag - no new cancer but still had old cancer.  Overall, the doctor said it was about the same as the initial scan.  Back to chemo next week as planned.

Hibernation was going as scheduled through the weekend, but on Tuesday it got a little extreme.  She was very lethargic and also not very coherent - like a bad drug reaction or something.  We talked with the Atlanta doctors and decided to get her over to Cape Cod hospital to have her checked out.  That was on Tuesday afternoon.  The doctors discovered that she was extremely dehydrated, had almost no white blood cells, and elevated ammonia levels in her blood - a side effect of a liver that's not working too well - which was causing her to be very disoriented.  All in all, she was not feeling well, so they admitted her.



She is still in the hospital today (Friday) but she is feeling much better and I hope to get her hope today or tomorrow.  At dinner last night she was sitting up and talking - after dinner we took a little walk around the floor - so she is making great progress but still needs a bit of rest.  They are giving her IV fluids, antibiotics and something to get rid of the ammonia, and the view is not too bad either.



As luck would have it, the doctor told me that she couldn't travel for a week or so with her white cell count so low - so we are staying up here for Christmas!  Patti always wanted a Cape Cod Christmas - so this is our year.  It was a little short notice, but all the girls and boys in Atlanta are coming up, and KB and Geem have changed their flights from Atlanta to Boston so the whole family will be here - Patti is very thankful that we will be together.

On Thursday AM I let the Cape Cod neighbors know that we will be stuck/hanging around here for Christmas.  When I returned from the hospital Thursday after lunch, there was a wreath on the door - what a nice gesture...

  

But when I walked in the house.....



The entire place was cleaned and decorated with a real Christmas tree - fully lit and filling the house with a piney Christmas smell - unbelievable!  I was trying to think of who could pull this off, and on such short notice -I later found that the Obed Brooks and Hillcrest Elves were out and about.

I was overcome with the thought that we have so many friends and family who would do something so special for us - for Patti. We are so fortunate to have these people in our lives.  I really wish I could express the feelings we have for you all but I can't find those words - you will have to trust me on that one.

Merry Christmas and thank you everyone.



Thursday, December 13, 2012

Prayers this morning...

Hi everyone!

Just wanted to send a quick prayer request - Mom goes in this morning for her PET scan, so let's all send positive vibes her way, and lift her up in prayer! She finished the 3rd round of chemo yesterday, and hopefully all it is paying off :)
She has been very tired and feeling pretty "crappy" (her word) so a little good news is definitely what she (and we) would love to hear. 

I have a good feeling about it, especially since this was the fortune I received in a recent fortune cookie:

Thank you all again for everything - this process would be much more difficult without your love the support!

XOXO,
Caitlyn

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Round three - treatment 2

It's a Wednesday and that means it's time for the Chemo Cafe. The appointment is earlier than normal today,  which is nice because we have the cafe all to ourselves!
The usual spot by the coffee station


Table for 2...Mom has hot chocolate and I have tea. 

Mom has been feeling pretty crappy since the last treatment. One of the chemo drugs she had last week  made her feel like she's had the flu. Luckily no vomiting - just overall achiness and ickiness. The doctor gave her some pain meds which have helped. She started feeling better today...just in time for another round. The nurses today told her that she won't be getting that same drug again today, so she shouldn't feel as bad this week. We've been here about 20 mins and she has already passed out so there is still no problem sleeping! 

After next week's treatment she will be having her PET scan to see what's going on inside. Then she and dad are jetting up to Boston for some R&R. I believe she still has to complete the 4th and final round of chemo, regardless of the results of the scan. 

We are definitely in the home stretch. Only 4 more appointments after today! We are all looking forward to the holidays and some cheer!!!

PS - MOM JUST SNORED!!!! Hahah! Good thing no one else is here :) 

Love to all!
xoxo
Beth